my dp and best friend have fallen out. she thinks there's been a massive over reaction and things slightly taken out of context (won't go into detail as it could be outing).I don't think I would have reacted as he did but I completely understand why he's annoyed but I wish that 2yrs on, he could move on from it and it shouldn't be such an issue in our relationship.
this happend within the first 3 months of our relationship. myself and best friend didn't talk for sometime, we've since talked and resolved the issue between us (our friendship is still recovering and im not sure we'll ever be as close as we were) but dp doesn't want me to talk about her to him so nothing has been resolved between them.
he feels that I've taken sides and I'm that not loyal to him and I don't have his back.
I really do get that feeling but I feel that he shouldn't try and make me pick sides and she was my best friend, her dc and my dc (not his) were really close too and their friendship has suffered from it.
I mentioned to dp that I may possibly be seeing them soon and all hell broke loose.
I know any advice given will be difficult without knowing the full details but wwyd?
am I wrong for still wanting to be friends with her and not wanting our dc to miss out any longer?
should I have "had his back" and essentially gone NC with her?