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Would it bother you if DP text his ex everyday to ask about the kids?

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Welldoneme · 07/02/2018 23:36

We have not been together long, about 5 months, he has 2 dc one is a teenager the other is 10 .
The teen has her own phone and I can’t quite grasp why he doesn’t text her every day to ask how they are.
I don’t want to sound a jealous person, just want to gather others’ opinion.
He sees his children regularly which I don’t mind at all.

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cattycat83 · 08/02/2018 10:47

Hmm I'm in the minority and going against the grain but I found it had an awful impact on us as a couple as his children got older. They both had mobiles and were of an age where sometimes he could have dealed direct but chose to still go through the ex wife..tbh that didn't massively bother me..what affected us was when plans were made between them all and I was left out.
More to it but it did lead to us splitting up

DriggleDraggle · 08/02/2018 10:50

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SandyY2K · 08/02/2018 15:53

This relationship isn't for you. It's early days and you're not happy with the texting. Step aside.

expatinscotland · 08/02/2018 16:00

Of course there will be an emotional relationship there, he and she created two children together. Sounds like you shouldn't be dating a man with kids.

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