Have you ever taken revenge on a cheating partner /BF?

[BeenthereandhavetheTshirt]

What did you do and did it make you feel better ?

Nope. I fantasized though.

I looked up one on facebook recently and his life is a mess.

No. I moved on with my life, that made me happy.

I’ve threatened to sell the precious golf clubs......... but I am the bigger person.

NC for this!

I slept with two of his best friends. I know some of you will be and horrified, but he really was a vile man and it felt great. Yes it was for revenge, but I'm still good friends with both of the mates, one of whom I had a FWB relationship with for 3 years. BastardEx knows about one and he went mental, (luckily after I moved a safe 100 miles away) but the other is still a secret.

No regrets.

I did. Not going to say what I did as it was probably illegal (think fraud, not murder!) but it didn't make me feel better. I told my dad I'd done it, my dad having supported me through all my ex's abuse, and he was really disappointed in me. In hindsight, I wish I'd just walked away and moved on a la Dexy.

I’m interested too! I’d also love to know if anyone revenged the other woman(I know, I know, but we all surely think it?!)

Oh dear.

My boyfriend phoned me and dumped me (after 4 years!) In the backgroung I heard a womans voice.

So I went round there and used my key. There was tea and cake laid out on tbe table. The bath was running...

I picked up the cake and threw it at the wall. I cut up his favourite suit.

I then spied an ornament thing that was precious to him. It had been given to him by his ex wife who had left him heartbroken.

I picked it up and said "you really love this don't you?"

Then I threw it at the wall and it broke into a thousand pieces.

Afterwards I found out he had cheated throughout our relationship and had even made passes at 2 of my friends! He used to tell me how fat I was and how I should stay with him because no-one else would have me.

For those reasons I have never felt an ounce of guilt about what I did.

When I was 21 I had a boyfriend who cheated on me. He had left most of his stuff at my house.

My mum gave me a lift with it all to a roundabout where we dumped all the stuff, took a Polaroid photo and posted it through his letterbox with a note saying 'spot the roundabout'.

Lot of roundabouts near us

loveka that’s pretty fucked up of you.
Did you ever compensate him (or did he ever come after you) for the ruined suit and sentimental loss?

I had no guilt. He was emotionally abusive and cheated in me. As I said.