How do they do it?

[Gossipqueen14]

Found out last week H cheated on me
Two years ago, brought girl on date and ten kept in contact for past two years 'as friends'.

We are over I have moved out but he hasn't even apologised or asked me to forgive him he has turned everything onto me. I have asked him to meet to discuss things about our DC but he is refusing says he wants space. I am so 😡 how can he just do this and expect that I deserve no explanation.

He is seeing DC which is good but my heart breaks for him as his little life is so changed now and the person that done it doesn't care

I have no helpful advice but sending lots of love and strength your way

Why would you expect him to explain though. If he's a turd enough to cheat he's a turd. You can't expect much from a turd. Hold your head up and move ahead. By having expectations of him you are giving him attention.

Probably shacked up with her now Tbh

He can do it because he's a cold, heartless, cheating scumbag. I understand your need for an explanation but honestly how would it make things any better? And I think the only explanation is that he's a cheat. You already know that.

He doesn't deserve the head space you're giving him and I know its easy to say but hard to do but please try to move on. Keep things civil for the kids sakes but don't let him hurt you more than he already has x

You're all right

Another let down later in the week for DC but at least he has me. I know he's out with her on Thursday evening and I know it's gonna break my heart even more but onwards and upwards