How many partners have you had?

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That you would class as a boyfriend or girlfriend

I have had 3

Long-term living together relationships between 2 and 4 years - 4.

Short-term things lasting up to about 6 months - 5, I think.

Shorter term fling type things lasting a few weeks to a couple of months - more than 5 Never had a ONS.

All between the ages of 17 and 36.

Four. My first love age 15-18. Two uni boyfriends (one lasted for a few months after uni). Then I met DH when I was 22.

Plus a couple of one-nighters in between.

Why?

2 - married both (not at the same time)

6 that I would call boyfriend/girlfriend at the time. Maybe 4 more where we were seeing each other but it didn't get to relationship territory. One lovely non-exclusive dalliance with a friend. And an undefined number of other encounters, because a girl must have her secrets

Too many to count. Rough estimate about 30

Serious partners that I’ve lived with, 4.
Probably another 3 just “dating”.
Been with DH for 14 years though and I’m only 37 so I had quite an eventful late teens and early 20s!

(+ loads of one night stands)

Three relationship partners - eighteen months; three years; five years. Sexual partners approaching triple figures, often simultaneously, some of whom have been longer term FWBs and others just one-nighters (or one-hourers!)

Actual relationships? 6 including my now dh between 15 and 27 when we got together, lasting about 6 ish months to maybe 3/4 years (plus my dh, we’ve been together 10). Sexual partners though probably about twice that as there was a short lived more casual relationship in between most of those.

If we're talking actual proper relationship partners then 2 too many...

If we're talking sexual partners then not enough...

Why do you want to know OP?

1. Serial monogamist here.

All the people asking why are so annoying. If you don't want to answer then don't ! Click another thread bloody hell.

Long term relationships about 6/7
Sexual partners not a clue