Had partner any rights over house

[cuddly61]

Please bear with me I’m not to good at explaining myself or even if I have the right dept as to put it I find navigating round mums net a bit complicated lol.
Met my partner mid 2011 partner moved in shortly afterwards.
I lived in a council house only my name on tenancy.
As couples sometimes do made a few rules not difficult,partner didn’t do houses work so I said ok just cook one meal a day I do the housework.....basically I’m one of these women that cling on to the hope they will” change” no my partner informs me not doing housework means not even helping by doing washing up sometimes.
Oh as for cooking one meal a day that went a few months later.
For two years nearly my partner has been going to bed at nine until about 1 pm going back to bed about 2/3 pm then getting up about 7.30 pm back in bed by 9 pm . At first my partner said it was depression but anywhere they want to go hey springing out of bed and out the house by 8 am and fine can be out all day till late at night.
Yes I’ve tried discussing how I’m being made to feel but my feelings are not validated just ignores me.
So here’s my problem.
In 2016 I inherited a lot of money I brought my council house outright with about 30 k left which is in the bank.
I was willing to put my partner on the deeds but was told no so ok.
But then m.i.l even before I had completed sale told me that it was my house therefore my partner should not pay anything towards it such as repairs decorating etc no change there partner never has only towards the bills and rent when it was council.oh my partner was lapping this up agreeing with m.i.l.
So I’m seriously thinking of telling my partner to leave as I’m emotionally and mentally distraught by their behaviour.
Does anyone know how I could implement this and could partner put a claim in for a share in my house and my savings.
Partner pays half the bills but insists I buy all our food and the tobacco for both of us .neither of us works .
If I’m lifting something or doing something that needs two people partner refuses to help. But wow if anyone else needs helps ..you get the picture.
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He's not a partner.
He's a lucky bloke who has landed on his feet with free accommodation

You're not married and the house is in your name only.

Give this cocklodger the boot asap

Kick him out tomorrow. (I’m nice or I’d say right now)

Kick him out! Of course he has no right to your house. And don't ever get back with him!

I’ve talked to his first ex she finished it he played loud music and shouted until she managed to get somewhere to go.
His last ex finished it rented house but as his ex had kids it was easier for him to get somewhere but took him months to move out.
So by what I’ve found out most relationships he has been dumped and he hasn’t moved out straight away .
He was dumped when he had a mortgage in both names but his ex moved out bet that was the only way she could get away instead of him clinging on .
I have told him to leave before last year he said no. I think he plays on my mental illness knowing that I change my mind.
Ok he has one to bi polar but where my mental illness doesn’t define me he blames doing nothing to help on his bi polar ,laying in bed. 18 hours a day says he depressed. That’s until one of his family invite him over or out somewhere then he springs out of bed ,this from a person who tells me I have to shout him several times before he eventually gets up ,the same who when I ask him to get up because we are going on on very rare occasions together tells me to give him five more minutes but still doesn’t get up until I’ve been up and downstairs several times.
This same person who must sleep 18 hours a day only up two hours at lunchtime yet so tired has to go back to bed till gone tea time but when going out to his family can go out stay awake all day until he comes home late .
But it’s actually getting him out my house he has a violent side which o never saw until a few years ago.
Caught him chatting to teenage girls on this Skype they also played this online virtual reality game ok I was ok he had lots of people on their but not ok with two of them on his Skype his excuse it was easier to tell them how to play this game than typing on this game.
I saw the content of what these girls was saying.” Do you want sex” one saying the other girl had a crush on him ok he hadn’t typed anything but then I saw this girls Skype screen name which was her name a live heart and his name. He said he didn’t see what they was putting he had the window minimised as he was talking via mic. But as soon as I said I deleted them he hit the roof shouting at me for invading my privacy called me sick when I pointed out the dangers of talking to teenage girls what if their parents had seen what I had seen. But then he slapped me on my arm I was so surprised I fell back into a chair he was leaning over me right in my face eyes glaring.yes I should had kicked him out then and there .but I made it very clear any more and he was out.but he showed no remorse for it that I couldn’t understand .
So I told two of my friends my friend and her husband came round and had a go at him for it. Oh it was great seeing him squirm and he kept contradicting himself and we was picking up on it lol in the end he faked what I can only explain a bi polar episode .ran into the hall wall making this roaring noise like something possessed it was suppose to been fake over emphasised crying I think and banging his head up the wall. We just ignored him and carried in talking .
So he knows now lays one finger on me and he will have my friend and her husband round.
But I can’t involve my friend and her husband now as she and her husband have parted on good terms but she has enough on her plate now with being a single mother .
But I did think about contacting the vulnerable adults team

Yes contact the vulnerable adults team. Good idea.

Also talk to women's aid.

He has to go!! Contact women's aid and the vulnerable adults team. You need help.

This will be the worst if times but you will cope and your life will improve immeasurably.

This man is awful and taking the mickey out of you. He’s not a partner! He has no rights to your house or your money. Don’t put him on the deeds!! Tell him he has until the end of the week to find somewhere else to live. Might also be worth messaging the mil and tell her to come get him as you want him out. He’s treating your house like his own personal hotel! Get him out.

www.themix.org.uk/housing/housing-problems/how-can-i-evict-someone-from-my-house-8102.html

Change the locks next time he leaves the house, he has no rights to your property.

Oh op, I know the position you are in only too well. I had one of these. Took me years to get rid as he just wouldn't leave. He even convinced me, at one point, if I made him leave, he would get custody of our son because I had depression. In the end I arranged for him to stay at his parents so we could "have a break" in order to "work at the relationship". I packed his bags in full after he had left and told him he wasn't coming back. I spent a few months living in fear of him turning up at the door and kicking off but he didn't.

What a horrible situation to be in.

You did exactly the right thing not putting his name on the deeds. Very pleased about that.

Contacting the vulnerable adults team is an excellent idea. You could call Women’s Aid too, they can advise you, but if you have contact with the vulnerable adults team that will be a good place to start. Tell them that he slapped you before.

If he is ever frightening you or slaps you or pushes you, call the police straight away.

Not sure where you live but if you live in Scotland yes potentially he can claim a stake in House I would seek advice from citizens advice before doing anything to see where you stay

Stand not stay