Hi ladies,
Was hoping for a little advice.
Ok I'll try and keep it short as possible, but i can't promise lol.
Met my current partner 2 years ago.
I found out he was still in contact with his ex (they ended on very bad terms due to cheating)
We had a row and came to the compromise for the sake of our relationship all contact was to stop as it was detrimental.
And it was a deal breaker if we were going to have a relationship together.
Ok.. so yes i snooped, many will see this as wrong but my gut told me something was up and he wouldn't of told me due to consequences.
And he's still in contact secretly with her. As far as I'm aware no physical meetings but plenty of emails and calls.
Sooo, do i reveal i snooped and see what his excuses are even though he knows what it means to betray me yet again or do i ignore it as its just talking????
Feel so torn as on one hand I'm tired of being disrespected and my feelings ignored or downplayed but on the other is the cliche I do love him very much??
Would be great to hear some opinions xx