Me and my ex were great we were together just short of 2 years it wasnt easy we both had a child. But the last weeks of the relationship we started arguing over silly things mainly me always working and helping everyone else out but not making time for her. It all got on top of me and i left, i said i needed time and wasnt happy. For the next few days she continually tried to change my mind but i was stupidly stubborn and said i loved her but needed more time. She went out that weekend and after the weekend i tried to contact her and say i had made a massive mistake. She didnt want to know, I tried everything since made a fool of myself, gone to far to try and change her mind and am blocked and deleted on everything and im gutted. She told me not to contact her It was her bday in December and i didn know what to do but at that point i wasnt blocked so i did on the evening text her happy birthday and hope she had had nice day to which i got a sarcastic message saying her day had been fantastic and thanking me for a card, explaining even her daughters dad had got her a card and perfume. I was gutted because i wanted to but didn because she had told me to leave her alone. Since then i was blocked and have had no contact to and have found out now that she immediately got back with her child father. Now the bit I cnt get my head around is they hadnt been together for well over 3 years, and he had physically abused her and even hit her daughter in one incident trying to get to her. There was a restraining order in place which ended mid way through last year she had fought him for two years not to see there daughter but now has got back together with him. Like nothing happened in the past and in fact started to say they she was scared of me and he was protecting her from me? I cant understand her behaviour, I understand its over but going back to that absolutely broke me?!