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I can't trust him

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mumofplenty1 · 30/01/2018 11:26

Bit of a long story so I apologise in advance. We have been together for 2 years and I'm 21 weeks pregnant with his first child (my 5th). The thing is I'm thinking of calling it a day but I don't know if I'm overreacting. 6 months in the relationship I went to see my family and he stayed behind. When I got back he put on a site that he needed female stimulation as he was home alone. I was upset and he said he only ment conversation. I tried to move on from this mistake. Then 6 months later We split up for a weekend and he decided to stay at a work colleagues that he had a one night stand with before we was together. I asked why her and he said that they text one another all the time, sometimes it was flirty but he deletes her messages as there conversations was private and didn't want me to see. I now think that's when I started to mistrust him. A few months after that he gave his number out to a woman on Facebook (he knows her dad) and was WhatsApp her. He said it was just normal conversation but he deletes everything straight away. He said to prove that he loves me he will delete what's app and not use it. Now to present time... he was constantly texting his work colleagues wife. He gave his number to her and he even told me that he spoke to her on the phone sometimes. I felt that he payed her more attention than me (come home from work went straight on his pad and we had no conversation) . In the end he deleted her from fb but obviously she kept texting him asking why he deleted her. He told his work colleague that she was getting too close 😒. Now his been using WhatsApp again and I asked why and he went all defensive. Am I being paranoid? I know I don't trust him but can i work on this. Sometimes I think I'm better off without him as I'm constantly anxious at the moment. He says he has done nothing wrong as it's all out of innocence but I feel like he constantly needs female attention. Advice would be nice. Thank you x

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Cricrichan · 30/01/2018 11:29

You've every reason not to trust him!

SparklyMagpie · 30/01/2018 11:31

The only advice I'd give you,leave him x

mumofplenty1 · 30/01/2018 11:43

That's how I'm feeling at the moment. I have brought my kids up for years on my own so I can do it again. Only difference is I have no family around me but I can work something out. Thanks for your advice x

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