H goes to every home match ie usually every other week. Goes out about 12ish, comes home about 6.30ish and has had afew drinks. So i am on my own with baby. Many of the no match days he works. I also have baby all day in week apart from one morning. That morning is probably my only break (well i say break, i am actually working!) I just think it is unfair. I hardly have any time for me. He also goes to the pub every day after work. Says he deserves to go because he works hard(which he does)and he says it is just what men do. Is it?? Then when he comes in it is nearly dd's bed time and and after a little play with her he falls asleep. Please help should i put up with this. He says the time in the pub is his right cos he is main earner, but i work just as hard and am also stduying at home degree course so i can earn more in the future. I am lonely and need abit more help. Had a recent moan and he turned round and said well you shouldnt have had her then. You obviously cant cope with her like he can!!! He has never had her on his own for more than a couple of hours and just plays with her. I have to do all the other stuff too. He thinks i am moaning about looking after her i am NOT i adore her. I am moaning about him not doing his share. She is his dd too.
Am i right