My beautiful sister passed away 9 years ago, she left 3 children and husband. Fortunately financially comfortable, they had many properties fully paid and rented out. I have given my nieces and nephews everything I could since that terrible day. Love, Support a place to stay. I even housed one of them after she was thrown out of the family home(she was naughty though)
I have a son, no partner not financially comfortable.
My widowed Mum who I have supported for 7 years with dementia left a substantial sum to all grandchildren equally and the rest to me.
My brother in law (incidentally did not support my Mum in any way whatsoever) has insisted that I coerced my Mum into not leaving 50% (my sisters share) to his children. He has turned my nieces and nephews to hate me and my son. He has a harassment order to stay away from me.
I miss my family. I loved them ! Should I given them some more money? It would be a total of £45k