I reconnected with an old flame after breaking up with my sons dad. we even met up and he told me he was single but living with his children’s Mum and would be moving out shortly.
He has a son and a set of twin girls the same age as my son (4’). His son is a teenager and from a previous relationship but lives with him.
We ended up falling in love and he declared it first. We talked on the phone all the time and he even helped me with my business. He became distant at one point and that’s when I realised he was not as single as he claimed . He explained he had never met anyone like me and it’s the finances and the kids that he will be upsetting if he left with his son who only knows this woman as a Mum etc. he knows he has to leave but does not know when.
He said no one has ever been there for him like me and his never been in this situation before. He doesn’t want me to say wait but this is his truth and he does want to be with me.
I saw a psychic who said that there is nothing going on between him and the woman he lives with just co parenting. I really love this man and don’t know what to do.
I would like to hear some opinions or experiences. I’m not waiting for him to leave so we have stopped contact but is he worth the wait or an old wives tale?