My husband left me 11 weeks ago, saying he didn't love me anymore. I think there was someone else, I found stuff, but no proof. I know they aren't together now. He came home for Christmas, and I let him stay in the house, as he lives in England.....im in Ireland, so he could be with the kids. We got on really well, stained at the start, and he couldn't look at me, but it did get better. But he wasn't going to come back to us. After he left, at the end of December, ive been on at him about the kids, we have 3, one is special needs. He doesn't phone them, or WhatsApp them, they have to do it. They have been asking him when he is going to come over to visit, and all he says is soon. I keep asking for them too, I have even offered to pay for the flight, even though I don't work, I'm still waiting 3 days later to get times to book. I'm now at the stage that I'm going non contact with him. It hurts so much as my little girl and him were so close! I know he has started seeing someone, in the last couple of weeks, as I found this out. But he is saying to me that we will talk when he is home, and asking if I could change if he came back to me...I said we would both have to change....I'm not sure what the hell is going on in his mind!! Has anyone been through this?