I met "X" 2 yrs ago, moved west of the city, 2 months later same with him (he moved west although he prefers and works in the east)...we hang out, talk for hours, drink/eat…after X amount of weeks; we were having sex.
With my own personal reasons, i still found it hard to get into him and putting off our dates often.
But now i realise i can chat to him for hours & he’s a gentlemen eg: lends his coat, lifts my chin up to passionately kiss me, lock hands in public, pays for everything and put on soothing music/candle for sex. He seems to follow advice/tips I come up with and ask me opinions on this and that.
He lets me leave toothbrush at his and bought me guest slippers for his place and will take me away for a weekend for my birthday.
With the bad ...we’re about the present nothing else matters (and I don’t want others interfering) & only started non-condom sex and naked which makes me feel warmer to him and possibly the same for him?
Confusingly, he introduced me to friend by only my name and at times looks at women here & there yet he looks into my eyes clasping my hands but wanting to say something but won’t.
I asked him who knows about me and he said some close friends and that “he is seeing someone (me)” (What does that mean exactly??). I also stated that “we won’t do stuff with others” and he nodded.
For 2-3 months he texts me daily morning and night and when I leave the morn after, he kisses/holds me like he doesn’t wish to let go.
He makes me happy and a great influence but its hard to get him to open up and I’m not easy there either! eg: he had the body language of saying that he'll miss me for a week or so but I asked "will you miss me?" which he said "of course" and vice-versa.
We both agreed the L word and family is too early (it scares me to!) yet getting closer and he booked a holiday (due to work stress) and contacting me more while there plus he insisted on seeing me the evening of his leaving despite at dawn wake up then straight after he returns back.
How does this relationship sound? like were friends who f*? Dating? (definition please!) starting of a Relationship? Lovers? B/f & G/f? or another label with meaning?