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What is happening

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Calforniadreaming · 22/01/2018 09:44

After asking for one of my posts to be deleted I’m writing under a different name. Hopefully some of you will know what that post was. My original concerns were about my husband who is obsessive and possiessive over me. (I’m not writing details exactly of the previous concerns)
My husband seems to know about the conversations on here as after I looked in his phone this morning (due to evidence on my part) He’s Deleted all photos (recent ones) he screen shot off my social media accounts and he’s also deleted the conversations he had recorded (written word for word down).
How has he found out I’ve written on here? I’ve never ever written on forums like this before. I haven’t openly spoken about mumsnet ever. As I’ve only just joined. He would never delete photos so why has he done this? I haven’t spoke to anyone about our problems and apart from being a bit quiet at home I haven’t said anything to him about my concerns. I dont know what to do......

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Calforniadreaming · 22/01/2018 17:16

Will do thank you

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Calforniadreaming · 22/01/2018 17:17

Ha didn’t mean to write that twice! Thought the first one hadn’t sent

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category12 · 22/01/2018 17:30
Smile

Also if you've a pin or pattern to open your phone, change that too.

Calforniadreaming · 22/01/2018 17:37

Yes the first thing I did this morning was change my pin and I know he won’t know what it is.
Bloody ridiculous I have to do all this though.
😢

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category12 · 22/01/2018 17:39

Well yes. In the medium to long term, I'd be thinking of binning him off personally. (I can't remember the details of your situation from the previous thread, tho).

QueenofWhatever · 22/01/2018 17:44

You’re not going mad. My ex installed a keyloggef and used to repeat phrases from MNet threads I was on back to me during arguments and escalations. It’s very intimidating and spooky.

Make an escape plan and leave. People like this are no good.

Calforniadreaming · 22/01/2018 19:09

Just shocking to me that people would think of this stuff.
Snooping through my phone is one thing (which I actually don’t care about as I don’t have anything to hide) but this spy tech stuff is seriously on another level.

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ravenmum · 23/01/2018 07:45

Friend of mine's husband found out about her affair using a keylogger. The fact that it exists is relatively well known as you occasionally read warnings about criminals using it to get people's bank details etc. from public computers.

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