What should I do?

[Marinight]

My husband, after a quarrel, being with me in one apartment does not communicate with me.

Surely there must be more to this than just this episode with your son.

Were things great before this happened?

Also stonewalling means he's made up his mind for now and sees further discussion as unnecessary.

He did try to communicate with you and you told him his was idiotic to feel how he did. I’d tell you fuck off too and see no point in bothering.

This wouldn’t be about winning or strategy if my dh belittled my feelings, it would be self preservation and no longer trusting him to bother.

LTB, serously. Thats emotional abuse and you deserve so much better.

My DH wants to control who comes in to our home, when and why. All perfectly nice people too.

It's unacceptable to me. I refused to be controlled and isolated by his miserable and unwelcoming manner.

Being an adult means you can decide who you have in your home.

Your DH isn't your parent and he doesn't decide who you can invite in to your home. Fuck him off. Who wants to live like that.

Makes my blood boil - the cheek of these blokes!