Hi all, any advice would be greatly appreciated. I’m at a total loss.
Where do I start? It’s all a mess!
So some background info. Married 3 kids together 10 years.
Well over the last few years he’s never seems to be happy/satisfied. Some days he’s lovely and evething is good. Others he comes home from work an nick picks at stuff, house being dirty ect. (Which it is not!)
Dh says the marriage is not normal, because of the lack of sex, once a week, and if not sex foreplay in between, tmi I know 
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If I say no, he gets in a mood, loses his temper, bangs things and talks to himself?? Passion killer right? We then argue and throws insults I’m lazy ect. I do all cooking, washing, kids ready try and clean as much as I can. But I feel it’s never good enough.
Just feel like there are so many demands to try and be what he wants, it’s exhausting.
He’s totally insure, needs to be praised everyday. I believe he’s depressed, I’ve heard him crying at night, he’s very the world is against me, life is rubbish ect. I feel he’s expecting me to make him happy, but I know I cant, I’ve been depressed! I’ve tried talking to him, family, but nothing happens.
I’m at my wits end.
I have a good circle of friends and work is my break. I carry on like everything is ok, because I have too, just won’t be able to do this forever.
I’ve tried talking, ends in DH shouting and invalidating my feelings, I’ve asked for couples concilling numerous times, what next?
Sorry for the rant but at my wits end!