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Everybody is stressing me outs

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Gunsnrosesxo · 18/01/2018 11:23

I haven't been speaking to my in laws for a very long time now and I live with them because we're not financially stable to move out.
My MIL has been rude to me numerous times and she said words I can't forget and get past.. and they haven't even apologised for it she says it's normal everyone is like that? lol ok .
Now everybody is pressuring me to speak to them and constantly blaming me but they don't understand how I feel about it and they don't care how I feel!
She ha no remorse over what she's done it's so heartless.
Now my husband is putting pressure one me because his parents have said they would buy him a shop but because of how I'm being there not gonna buy it.
So now he's stressing me out.
My mum goes on about it all the time and shouts at me and cries.. and that stresses me out more.

I've developed bad stomach acid and my doctor has said it's due to stress.
It's really affecting my health now I can't deal.

Why doesn't anybody understand my feelings and expect me to get on with them like nothing happened??

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hellsbellsmelons · 18/01/2018 11:36

Because they didn't have to deal with it and they don't have to live with it.
So they've no understanding at all.

Do you work?
Could you move out on your own?
Just a rent a room in a shared house or similar?

Your DH is not being supportive at all on this.
I'd be gone.
This is doing you no favours at all and is not causing health issues.
I would say to move back to your mums but she is sounding like she's not handling it well either!
Would she let you move back with her for a little while?

Gunsnrosesxo · 18/01/2018 11:56

Thanks for your reply,
I do work but I don't think I could afford to move out on my own.
My husband was supportive until they said to him they were thinking to buy him a shop.

I wouldn't want to move in with my mum because she would stress me out even more she probably wouldn't even let me live with her after this.

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