Signs you where falling out of love?

[Chamomiletea8]

List the signs and feelings you had please when you was falling out of love, even in the confused stages...

You stop putting them first.

I’m not talking necessarily about the big stuff.

For example, you make two cups of coffee but there is only enough hot water for a half a cup for the second. You give your partner the half cup.

Two options for dinner in the fridge. One your partner loves, one he doesn’t. You enjoy them both. You go for the one he doesn’t enjoy so much.

You see that a play is coming to local theatre that you know partner would love. Rather than cut and show or even buy the tickets as a surprise, you just turn over the page and don’t give it another thought.

All little examples of me falling out of love with my ex.

Buying presents for Christmas and birthdays become a chore rather than a pleasure.

The thought of a weekend away with him made my heart sink rather than soar.

Oh and I found myself drawn to mumsnet threads about divorce and separation

Oh and I found myself drawn to mumsnet threads about divorce and separation

When my Stbx actually left me for the OW l wasn't overly bothered