We have been together for 18 years with no children.
My Husband has always been affectionate, he's the type to hold my hand, cuddle me on the couch if we are watching a film etc and he has always told me he loved me often, always kissed me before leaving for work etc.
About two months ago it hit me that he had not told me he loved me for so long that I honestly can't even remember the last time I heard it, also noticed he has not been close to me at all lately, as in, no cuddling at night in bed when we are going to sleep, a quick kiss when he is leaving if he remembers, the other day he got home and didn't even speak to me, when usually he would come home and kiss me, tell me about his day, ask me about mine etc this probably sounds so childish, but something has changed.
A few weeks ago I brought it up, told him he hadn't said he loved me in so long that I had noticed, he just nodded his head in agreement then didn't mention it again so I didn't push it, two weeks later still nothing.
For the first time ever I decided to look through his phone just to put my own mind at rest, and nothing at all to suggest he is seeing someone else, nothing bad in his email, facebook, whatsapp, texts etc He is never late home from work, and everything else in our marriage is normal, like it has always been, its not that I NEED to hear "I love you" 12 times a day, but I suppose what I am trying to say is you get used to someone's ways and when it changes you notice.
Am I overthinking all this?