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constantly feeling not good enough/anxiety

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Rosieeee · 16/01/2018 13:12

so me and my partner have been together for just over a year i have a son from a previous relationship.

the last few months i have been worrying so much when we got together i never felt good enough for him as our lives are really different and i feel like his family are not like mine they're alot posher😂 they have never made me feel uncomfortable when ive been round they have all been really lovely.

but for some reason i just have constant worry when we go there or he says were going there which has caused a lot of disagreements between me and my partner i just don't know how to feel better I'm just constantly worrying and feeling like I'm not good enough!

i did suffer quite bad anxiety when i was younger
i also stopped my pill like 2 months ago so i dont know weather its made an impact and its all my hormones because i just been so emotional and feeling rubbish about myself!

OP posts:
MyBrilliantDisguise · 16/01/2018 13:16

Being with your partner should feel wonderful - you should feel safe and as though you're at home.

You don't feel like this with him, so he's not the right man for you.

By the way, be very careful if you're not taking the pill!

Rosieeee · 16/01/2018 13:23

when were together we have great times and i love him so much i just don't know what's been going on with me last few months

i was emotionally abused in my previous relationship so my confidence was completely knocked he knows all about this and the things i been through.

no matter how much i tell myself i don't need to worry I'm constantly worrying and panicking about things

ah its ok we been using condoms and I'm on a different pill know but thanks lol x

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Shoxfordian · 16/01/2018 13:39

Might be an idea to see someone for your anxiety as its affecting your relationship

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