Cheating

[Missmee2010]

I think he may be cheating my heart is breaking Friday night he always goes out it’s a lads night he says but if am I’ll or upset or anything is serious he still goes like I was upset about my mum death he went I think that was cruel - yesterday I mentioned about cheats and he got really argumentivr saying I don’t trust him I asked about a text he snapped saying your always on your phone 😕 he don’t go out a lot or sneak of making calls I just feel something is wrong 😕 x any help. X

Sorry, but there really is very little to go on here to enable us to offer much help.

You've said he doesn't go out a lot or sneak off making calls, so what makes you think he's cheating?

Do you know he doesn't meet up with a bunch of lads every Friday?

Why did you ask him about a text?

I agree going out if you were upset about your mum's death (presumably relatively recently) seems cruel. Might make him a git, doesn't automatically make him a cheat.

How long have you been together?

My exp went to watch football when my mum was dying 'as its what I do every thursday'. Ditch the idiot.

It was a year anniversary I don’t know if he actually goes there it’s his care of when I was seriously ill to leave me and then when I was upset about my mother he was so nasty about it all and me feel like I have a problem . We have been together over 3 years .

It’s the way he tries to him de what he’s saying in texts like hiding am white open with my texts then if he was ill and when he was upset about something I stayed in because I care he makes me feel worthless as when I get upset about these things like my mum passing or why he’s gone out when am so ill I feel am not cared for am not that bad. I think it’s time for me to end it one night i had a breathing issue he still went out and I ended up in hospital he never even cared enough to come surely am worth more.

I mean hide the message when he types his texts and am quite open not white open for first sentence auto correct lol

Any reason you want to stay with him? A partner is supposed to make you feel happy.

Feel a bit stuck I think 😔

There are two questions.

1. Is he cheating? Based on what little we have to go on, I'd suspect probably not.

2. Is he a rather unpleasant arsehole? Based on what little we have to go on, I'd suspect probably yes.

This leads to a follow up question:

3. Should I put up with this or should I leave him? Based on what little we have to go on, yes you should leave him.

Do you have children with him?
Sounds like he needs to leave or you do.
Don't stay with him.

We don’t have kids it’s the Friday night thing I’ve explained and hiding messages what acting lame wheh u ask is that you lover as a joke or say would you cheat and the snap saying no . If you I’ll you should be there for you Partner and if that upset you should consider there feelings ! He doesn’t he’s care free as long he ok that’s fine ! I feel stuck as I got no we’re to go I’ve spoke to the Council thou as I starting to feel so low he expects to much this morning I forgot his pack up we’re is it make it yourself maybe ! Then we had a spring clean all day I was shouted at made to feel like am the person who makes it a mess no it’s not just me ! I try talk to him he’s like am sick of feelings ! It’s drama I don’t need he don’t go out every night he says it’s just at a Friday he had no time for cheating he says ! Why so secret today I’ve woke up feeling like am not worth caring for guess maybe he’s not cheating then but yes defo he’s a loser I need to leave !