I want to dtd more than him.... frustrated

[Doesntfitthemould]

Are there any other women out there who want to have more sex from their DH?
It’s driving me a little mad to be honest as all the time you hear about the men nagging the women and the women not wanting it, but what about when it’s the other way around?
We have been together a long time and have 2 dc , we are only in mid 30’s.
Once a week just seems enough for him, where as I am like a women possessed.

I know that feeling exactly Fox. I keep explaining to him how important it is to me. We are going to counselling but it is mainly focusing on his low moods. He is now finally also having cbt for his moods as well. I just don’t know if we can ever get back that feeling though 😔

Me too . After being SA, initially I was happy that my new man liked me for me and not for my body but the signs were there I just had too much going on, and none of the emotional intelligence, to see the reality. Especially hurtful that he lied about something and only told the truth 10 or more years later. Then he had an affair and did stuff with her he won't with me. I didn't sleep with the ex who wanted too, and I'm mostly glad I didn't when we met for afternoon tea but it hurts. I get to have sex when my dh decides . Which isn't often.