I recently met a man through OLD, but the relationship started developing later this year. We met for dinner over the Christmas period - firstly, he had not been truthful about himself. He told me he was separated, but I think he is still with this lady whom he spent New Eve with. Secondly, he told me that he was cuddly - but turned out to be bigger and a lot bigger than he had portrayed himself online and on the phone. This was no an issue, the character and personality of a person is more important than looks.
I enjoyed his company and we arranged to meet again.
Anyway, to cut the story short, he returned from his "ex" "because he could not wait for us to start 2018 afresh" - I was also looking forward to seeing him again, so we arranged to meet on Monday and start something amazing. When I arrived to his house, he was not even ready, the place was a mess and he was sittin in his under pants. He then proceeded to "bitch and talk" about this woman for two hours. By the time we tried to look for somewhere to have dinner on New Year's Day, most places were shut.
We ended up in a restaurant where he used to take his "ex", opposite a London's Hotel where they used to stay together. Unconsciously he was not even there with me but with his ex girlfriend. This really upset me, so I decided to come back to my house.
He texted me about meeting on Thursday so he could make up to me. He sent two text messages and I called twice but he did not pick up his phone and then sent a message with, "please answer your phone." He phoned me back an hour later and told me that he was in a meeting. I told him that I was too busy to meet on Thursday night, if we could meet the following day, but he was going to be away and offered to come and have dinner/talk in my area.
The dinner was good and the conversation was also good. During dessert, he took his phone and showed me the message that I sent with, " please answer your phone" and started really having a good at me, putting me down, telling me that I should not have sent the message. Anyway, I told him that I was not aware that he was in a meeting, all he had to do was text me back that he was in a meeting.
He started shouting at me in the restaurant and I told him that if he did not stop shouting at me, I would walk away. He continued, so I walked away. The following day, he sent a message with, "I am sorry" but I did not reply and got more messages last night accusing me of having anger issues and not willing to forgive.
I replied back that I was disappointed at the way he behaved (he had told me about his ex girlfriend had anger issues and she had being violent towards him before). I have no room for drama in my life.
I got two further messages just before midnight accusing me of being rude and disrespectful for not saying thank you for him buying me dinner. That he has dumped me and he was now walking away from me. The best feeling that I had after reading the text messages were deleting it without replying back. I felt so good and slept so well.
I had already deleted his numbers from my phone and threw out his business card. Do I sound like I have anger issues? As for me no thanking him for the dinner - I bought him a few Christmas presents and he gave me nothing.