DC are spending more time than usual with ex over hols and are very young. They mentioned tears due to missing me, being told that they couldn’t speak with me and should not say that they were upset to be away from me ie lie.
Ex is a narc and selfish. He doesn’t put the DC first. Do I say anything to him? Do I say that this time is too much (he is threatening to ‘formalise time through court’)? How do I handle this?
I don’t want DC to be upset and I don’t want them to be taught to lie. Equally, I don’t want anything enforced.