XP going thru a rough time so I invited him for Xmas with me and DS. Ended up sleeping together and have had a sort of reconciliation though he doesn't seem to have much interest in sex (bit like last couple years of relationship due to substance abuse and treating me like dirt). I have said he obv doesn't want me and he insisted that's not the case as why would he not (13 years older than me and general opinion always that he should count himself lucky). now I've just had a text saying if I shave that might help as he really doesn't like hair! Despite never bringing this up in years before! its not like my lady garden is wild and overgrown, bikini line done and all neatly trimmed, just not bloody bald and 'all smooth bits' as he said! AIBU for telling him he should thank his lucky stars I even look at him after all he's done and that i think he should be glad to get anywhere near my fanny, bald or not?!!