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Can't get past this

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dumbolickous · 04/01/2018 10:41

So last July my husband and I had a massive row. It was to do with his dysfunctional family . He has two daughters who are married to arseholes. Their husbands dictate basically tell them what to do and they do it. One of the husbands hates my dh. The other just likes to control his wife. Anyway, we live close to them and have to tread on eggshells where the (very young) grandchildren are concerned. My family on the other hand are so accommodating and treat us with respect but live hours away. One is in another country
I can't easily access my own grand children but would enjoy some time with his. But it can't happen, due to nasty, controlling husbands
In July I decided I wanted to take my equity out of the house and relocate nearer to my daughter.i was missing my family so much and his were no substitute,

However we talked and resolved this by compromise.
BUT I discovered by chance that he had joined a dating site while we were having our heart to heart and going through our worst time. He says he was drunk (yeah) he says he didn't reply to anyone (yeah
I have loads more to say but I wanted to leave him anyway and he's given me a good way out
I am in my stuck really is he a lying bastard

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Justbreathing · 04/01/2018 10:47

I think if you want to leave anyway and relocate then it's nothing to do with the dating thing. you can leave for any reason.
But if you need a way out, he's handed you one on a plate. Just don't make it all about that. it clouds the issue.

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