After THREE MONTHS of constant contact, meet-ups, sex, dinners, presents, arguments, abuse etc off my exP, I'm finally cutting it off tomorrow.
This man has lied to me constantly throughout our relationship, sexually assaulted me, made everything about how he was the victim (I only abuse you because my ex girlfriend cheated on me 
). He has maintained contact with me to make himself feel less guilty. He uses me for sex when needed. He pretends to care about me but patronises me, saying he "doesn't like seeing me not looking after myself".He told me during the relationship "Kate you're just not my priority".
I love him, deep down I know that I'm in love with the ideal version of him. But my NY resolution was to cut out toxicity.
I'm going along the lines of:
"There is no friendship between us. A friendship requires a baseline of mutual respect. We are strangers now who require no further contact with each other. You're inability to see what you had when you were with me will haunt you in months to come, when you wake up alone. Your abusive treatment of me haunts me now, but i've had a lucky escape. I don't want to see you again"
In person - in a restaurant. Then block, delete number, and move on with my life!
Any advice?