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FEELING GOOD

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Grindingmedown · 03/01/2018 12:07

Hi, I feel on top for of the world today. I finally found the strength to dump my lying, cheating, manipulating lets not forget married man of a boyfriend!!
I’ve given more than enough chances and taken him back on several occasions after he lied and cheated on me. No more
I’m just leaving now to meet him and will update you all later on how it goes. 😊😊

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Nomoretears56 · 03/01/2018 12:08

Good luck!

Angelf1sh · 03/01/2018 12:12

Well good luck and all but I can’t really see how you can complain about him lying to or cheating on you if he’s married. He’s not cheating on you, he’s lying to and cheating on his husband or wife!

sexymamma17 · 03/01/2018 12:13

How can you say he's lying and cheating on you if he's a married man 🤔

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Grindingmedown · 03/01/2018 12:24

Let me explain why my fellow MN’rs. He told me he was in the process of divorcing his wife when we met. I was very clear from the off, i’d Only date him I’d that was the case and that he was sure it was over and there was no physical relationship with his wife. He was very convincing this was the case.
I’ve now found out these were a total pack of lives. No divorce proceeding, no separation and still very active in the bedroom.
It sickens me and yes I’ve been a fool to believe this. He has not idea what’s going to happen today !!

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ShatnersWig · 03/01/2018 12:48

And you took him back after you found him lying to you on "several occasions"....?

Karigan1 · 03/01/2018 12:52

Well done for dumping him. About 5 years ago I met a guy who said he was separated. Claimed he loved me etc etc. Lived some distance away so obviously we spent lots of time apart and then his wife wrote me a letter saying that if I was serious about him she wished me the best but if I wasn’t not to break up her family!!!! Needless to say I sent him home with an earful! Never seen him since.

category12 · 03/01/2018 12:52

Why are you meeting him?

juliettaa · 03/01/2018 13:07

Why are you meeting him?

That was the first thought that popped into my head too.

What a waste of time and energy. Just block him. End of. Unless you love the drama .............

Karigan1 · 03/01/2018 13:11

I thought she was saying she was on her way to tell him it was over after finding the strength! Not meeting him after breaking up.

juliettaa · 03/01/2018 13:25

I thought she was saying she was on her way to tell him it was over after finding the strength! Not meeting him after breaking up.

@ Karigan1

Yes, I thought that too. Either way, there's no real need to meet him is there. He's a liar and a cheat so why does he deserve to be met? A text message would suffice along the lines of 'fuck off you lying cheating cunt. Or just block him.

Karigan1 · 03/01/2018 13:45

Oh I get your meaning now! Sorry! Not disagreeing with anything you say as I can’t stand cheaters but guess she’s got to end it how she feels is right. 🤔

Angelf1sh · 03/01/2018 13:57

I still don’t think he’s cheated on you, but I do now agree he lied to you.

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