Naucious After Sex

[KITTYCATT]

Okay first time posting about sex...

Well to cut a long story short, ever since being pregnant with DC i feel physically sick after having sex. Not because of the sex but due to the thought of semen inside of me or on me...
Its weird i know and I'm really self conscious about it and don't know what to do. My relationship is good but me running into the bathroom gagging almost vomiting straight after sex is not good for me and my DP sex life. I do try and not think about it but i physically cant stop the feeling, its upsetting for me but i think my DP thinks its something to do with him but its really not...
I honestly don't know what to do, has anyone experienced this ? Or knows of anything that can help ?

Use condoms?

My DP cant stand them, I'm not scared of getting pregnant or anything as i have the contraceptive implant...

I think white was suggesting condoms because of your fear/nausea issue with seman and not because of pregnancy. If you explained situation to your dh wouldn't he mind using them if it means you'll get your sex life back? You could gradually wean off them eventually but it may help you resolve things on the mean time?

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Sorry, yes I wasn't suggesting condoms to prevent pregnancy. More to combat the aversion to having semen inside you, if that is the issue. I'm not sure what other option there is. As Starmix has said, you could just use them temporarily to help you get over the aversion, surely your DH could understand that if it means a healthier sex life?

I'm sure your DP would rather use condoms than have you feeling physically sick?

I don't have any suggestions other than the above but just wanted to say that I can relate to your post as also struggle with bodily fluids/ semen on this level. It is uncomfortable to deal with and difficult to understand from the perspective of DP. Do you know where/ why these thoughts/ feelings have arisen? Perhaps if you could unpick this it would help?