Im I wasting my time?

[xoxSarahxox]

Hi Everyone,

Im after some advice. I met a guy at work back in August and was instantly attracted to him. We hit it off straight away, and we were talking when we saw each other and getting to know each other. This has been going on now for a couple of months. He has told me he is single after his divorce and is currently going through some health problems. I have always been there for him as I have had the same health problem in the past. I have met his parents and they tell me that he likes me. I gave him my number about 3 weeks ago and he seemed really happy that I gave him my number. He keeps saying that he will text me but he hasnt. I put it down to having a lot on his mind etc. He told me the other day that he thinks im nice and an honest person and I told him I really like him. He said “do you?” And I said that I do. He said that I may be wild, I think maybe he’s had a bad relationship in the past. He should know me by now to realise that Im not “wild” but I feel with him not texting me and with me literally spelling it out that I like him, do I forget it or hang in there?

Thanks

Forget it and move on. You've made your position clear and if he hasn't made any kind of move then he's not that interested.

Thanks for the reply. Your right, he's not made any kind of move so I think I'm gonna cut my losses. As well as the things he says, he always gives off vibes too that he's interested but has made no move. What a shame x

Too much like hard work, especially after you put your heart on the line.

Yep move on. I've always found that if men are interested in you they are all over you like a rash.

Forget it, he's not interested in you romantically that's why he's not made a move despite you telling him how you feel. Move on to other opportunities

It took alot for me to tell him how I feel. Its not something you do everyday esp when feelings are involved. I don't know what his game is but I'm not up for being messed around. Totally agree with you, lot of hard work x

Thank you for all your replies. Its really helped me to see clearly. Gonna forget it and move on. X

If he's interested his actions will show it not his words.

He probably likes having you around, and having someone there as an option if he wants it. But right now he seems like he's got a complicated life and he doesn't want you to be a part of that.

Never focus all your energy into one guy, as all us girls tend to do that. We put these guys on pedestals, make our feelings known and then everything comes crashing down when they don't reciprocate.

What this should teach you is that you are open to loving someone and that you are going to be such a great girlfriend to the right guy. This guy is not right for you, and you will know when you meet someone who is as they will show you with their actions x