I just want to ask people if this sounds like something I should really be upset about or if I am actually a 'psycho' like my husband says.
A couple of weeks ago my husband went on his Christmas works party came home drunk and started implying that he'd had an affair. He said 'that it was all over now that he loved me and hed been stupid'. Obviously i questioned him and he said 'lets talk in the morning i dont want to fight because the baby is in bed'. So at this point I was angry and begged him to tell me what he meant and he said its 'because you've had a baby but your body's okay I suppose'.
So I took this as him saying he'd been with someone else.
In the morning he said he couldn't remember and that he was probably just trying to wind me up.
Ive tried to forgive and forget but I checked his phone and he'd made fun of me on his works party chat for getting upset.
Then tonight we went out and he was behaving like a perve and I felt humiliated because hes never acted like that before. When back home I told him how I felt and he was very aggressive saying thats who he is and how he talks. That i need to get a sense of humour and stop being a psycho.
Ive had post natal depression before and I'm questioning myself about whether I am being crazy or is it right that i feel so upset?