Does anyone else have a Jeckyll & Hyde partner?
If you'd been with us this evening you'd think my DH was the life & soul - and an attentive partner to boot.
But that's not what I see at home.
He is really moody and does exactly what he wants.
Recently I had to leave him at a party (not late - 4.30pm) with youngest DC as I was taking the oldest to a show. Asked him to watch his drinking.... They eventually got home at 10. He was paralytic - couldn't stand up, someone else had put them in a cab. Both DCs were really upset.
Oldest in particular says she's scared to be left with him as she doesn't know if he's going to get mad at her. I try to reassure her - but she's right. It's shouting, not violence, but it is horrible.
And it's not just me. I emailed a counselling service, asking what to do, how to calm things down when he's like that. They told me he was controlling and emotionally abusive - and I should contact Women's Aid.
He won't accept there is anything wrong with his behaviour. He dismisses anything I say and ignored an email I wrote trying to set things out calmly.
I don't know if I can bear much more of his head-f&(£ery.
Sorry, this is a bit rambling. Suppose I was wondering if anyone else has anything like this and what they've done.
Thanks if you got here!