Last night was my birthday so me, my dp, my friend and her newish dp went out for a meal. With it being my birthday I didnt want to drive and everyone agreed on friends DP driving (including him). We have met him before but only when lots of other people were present, we've not spent much time with him.
Anyway they came to pick us up, we were all getting along great, we went for a drink at a nearby pub first (driver drank coke) and from there we went to the resteraunt.
Anyway the restraunt was quite a drive into the countryside and my friends partner started saying some really wierd stuff that freaked me out, it started with "have you ever wondered what it would feel like to be in a car crash?" and progressed to "just think, if I decided to commit suicide right now you lot would come with me..." and "your lives are in my hands, do you trust me?" etc! , my friend was laughing her head off at him so I thought maybe I was being paranoid. When we got to the restraunt DP pulled me aside and said we should get a taxi home so then I knew it wasnt just me.
So we had our meal, friends DP was acting relatively normal throughout causing me to believe that I over-reacted and about 10 minutes before we were due to leave he said "just think, you'll never know when you've just set off on your last ever journey...." ??? again friend burst out laughing, DP was getting a bit angry about it so I told my friend that we were getting a taxi home and that it was nothing personal.
She didnt like it and made it obvious then later in the night she sent me a text saying I'd spoilt the evening and that I shouldnt blame her or her DP if I had a crap birthday and I should get a grip!!
DP said to just ignore her, Im totally confused, did I over-react??