I posted on AIBU saying im working all December loads of hours and dh is mainly off using up holidays and two weeks off for Xmas.
Tbf he has been doing more chores much as I did when he worked lots and I was part time with Dcs.I was dreading working Xmas day as it is my first since df died in the autumn.
Boss didn't do a rota until this week so when I heard I had Xmas eve off I asked dh to spend it with ms.
I work all week ends and e es so thought this would be OK.Very busy day. Came home he was out.....few pints with his mates.DS was going to have steak meal with him...waited waited he appeared clearly drunk.when I asked him shy he went out he said I could fuck off if I didn't like it.
I admit I followed him upstairs where he glared at me and called me a bitch.Said life didn't revolve around me.
Then he said me and......son could fucking live together.This is because we work in similar trade and often come home late at night and chat while we eat.we are close.he has. O relationship with D's to speak of.I we t to local. Church to see midnight mass I'm not religious but often think of df there as it is very close to home.Xmas day I worked. Visited DM then dh said he. Oulxnt remember what he said.
Now he has gone to d d s as agreed.I asked if he could to for less than six days as chores animals will need doing he said he needed a holiday.He wouldn't compromise.His mates suggested golf so he went there too.I'm still doing 14 hour days and reeling from DM Scattering dcs ashes and putting a pic on fb of the local landmark she did it at.
Please advise I'm exhausted by it all and to many hours.worked.we be been together 31 years NYE.