my partner is a selfish person, who seems to be lacking all empathy for others. He is also very selfish with his money and rarely contributes to bills, food etc.
He is a free spirit and loves to travel and was thinking of taking off to USA to see daughter and travel around. I was cross because I couldn't afford to anything other than pay bills. We had a row and he said it was already booked and he was leaving the next evening. However, when I got home that night he had already packed and gone. No contact for a month.
When he finally landed he went to stay with his sister. He finally got round to seeing me two days later saying he loved me but couldn't live with me.
He offered to spend Christmas with me but I couldn't see the point. he then left Christmas eve and I haven't heard from him since.
Every time I asked him if it was over he said 'no I just cant live with you anymore'.
Not sure why Im posting this but my head is spinning. We have been together over 13 years and I am totally confused. Have cried buckets and I just want to know where I stand but he leaves me in the fog all the time.
I know I should have the bottle to call an end but the very sad fact is I still love him. Oh and also he had a month long affair last year which nearly broke me.