This is a bit long, but my husband and I first started dating in our Sophomore year of High school. Typical High school sweethearts, then everything went down hill when we graduated. He pressured me into getting an apartment with him, which eventually led to me getting two jobs and working 14 hour days to support after he lost his job. I then found myself pregnant at 19, he said he would leave me if I lost the child. I delivered 2 1/2 months early to my sweet boy, and spent a lot of time in the NICU. During the time in the hospital my husband prioritized video games instead of his son and wife in the hospital leading to me having some severe depression. Once my son came home, nothing changed. My husband ignored us, played video games constantly, and has done nothing to help raise our son. Many talks and threats of me leaving and taking the baby have gone on deaf ears, Until I finally left. Now he is taking care of the house, doing his own laundry and dishes, things I could never get him to do. He says he wants us back and he is ready to be the husband and father we need. But after all this time, I have so much resentment and hurt from all he is done, i'm finally happy now that i'm alone. I don't know if i should go back or ask for a divorce.