I am furious with dh. He is hopeless with money - not spending it as such but not keeping track of it. A few years ago he signed up for a car sharing service which he thought would be useful for us. It would have been but he didn't bother to tell me about it so I never used it and neither did he. I found out after three years that he had been paying for it by direct debit and cancelled it. Two years ago we moved house and he had to cancel a phone contract we had. Only he could do it as he was in his name. I asked him several times if he had done it and he said yes. Tonight I found out that he "hadn't got round to it". I am furious as again, he has thrown away money. I feel like I have to micromanage him and it is just another item to add on to the list of things that DH cannot do . We are not rich but not poor either. I am always trying to save a bit for luxuries which he says that we cannot afford like a weekend away so this just feels like a big slap in the face. BTW at work, he is responsible for big budget projects where such slip ups do not happen and would not be tolerated.