So i've been with a guy for 4 months now. We have had an amazing time so far and we have had fun. We would always make jokes out of things and he would seem caring, kind, warm, loving, accepting that i have a DS too. Last week however things took a turn and he changed completely.
I first noticed a difference the night after his night out. He rang me to tell me he had dropped his phone during the afternoon and he was really annoyed about it.
The next day he said he felt weird and fed up with some small things. Said he wasn't getting as much sleep as he would like too. I was suppose to be seeing him the next day but i received a text that afternoon saying his mum had now informed him that has grandad had arranged a meal that he had to attend. I was obviously a bit sad but told him its fine go spend time with your family. He text me most of that night and said he was really gutted he didn't see me and felt he let me down. Again said he was getting fed up of some small things. I asked if that was me and he said no def not. That he was so sorry he had been bad with me recently and he would make it up to me.
The next day i asked if he was ok and he said he was slightly ok, was putting on nice clothes to cheer himself up. Seemed distant and not as chatty. So this is when i started worrying abit. I said to him if we weren't on the same page maybe we should leave things. He said what was i on about, now he didn't know how i felt. I explained i wanted to continue as we were the previous week. He agreed and said the same.
We were arranging to see each other in a few days and he again seemed distant. By this point my guard had flew up and i text him the next day to say lets just be friends. He replied ok any reason? I said i can tell when someone isn't interest, he replied i've just had an off week. Then he blocked me on everything. I cannot contact him to get an explanation.
I've been really upset because i really did like him. From the sounds of things hes said to me his mum sounds controlling. He does not cope very well with rejections because he ran away to another country when him and his ex finished a few years ago. I had a quick nose of his ex gf profile and it said something about if your ex has anxiety dont freak out and stick by them.
So from what i've said would be say this sounds like anxiety? Being fine 1 min but so different and down/sad the next?