OH and I have been together years, 1 toddler together and I have taken on 2 step children in the process. He didn't want to spend Christmas Day with my family because apparently "Christmas Day was over" when his two daughters left to go to their mums, even though his son and I were still here. He was miserable all day, spent 45 minutes talking to his ex-wife (kids mother) about rubbish (non child related) and he bought non of our sons presents and I bought the majority of his kids presents. I made our evening meal tonight (took 2 hours) and he turned round and shouted a load of expletives and threw his meal in the bin because it wasn't to his liking. Our son hid his bank card (playing) and he blamed it on me saying how much of a useless person I was, how fat I was (no baring on a lost bank card) and how pathetic I was.... I've brushed off similar behaviour in the past (I have no idea why) but because so much has happened in such a short space of time, I am absolutely livid!! Just wanted to rant :-(