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[user9217]

So on Boxing Day I got a friend request then a load of random messages from my ExH's new girlfriend. Saying loads of random stuff about hope I'm happy with myself and that she hopes we have a nice life together and sort it out. Then a very ominous 'well done' at the end. So random! After having a quick look at her profile (to find out who she was before the messages came) I found out a load of truths that correct lies ExH has told me about DS the past few months!!! Best way to confront him without coming across weird/jealous/petty? Don't want him back brw but it's not on and I need to say something to him

Maybe it is. She's with him, that's punishment enough! Although it is Defo not on to be messaging me accusing me of all sorts and talking about DS I found that extremely odd.

I did go to his house today to talk to him about it but he wasn't there so it'll have to wait til Saturday

but OP.. you knew who she was before you accepted the Friend Request... you said so... you checked her profile... so part of you was also curious...

you have done the right thing... in blocking her

Oh to clarify I didn't accept her friend request!!! She sent me a friend request which I ignored but wanted to see who she was so looked on her profile, and after she realised I hadn't accepted friend request after about 45 mins she messaged me. Haha would never accept her as a friend on there no idea why she thought I would?!

Sounds like he has told her a bunch of lies too. He's probably off with another woman now. What a prince.

I wouldn't waste any time on this. You know he's a liar. Don't put yourself in their drama.

@RebeccaBunch that was my thought too! Found someone else and dumped her but somehow that's my fault twat

Re confronting your ex about the lies about him not being able to have his child because he was supposedly being away business when he was in actual fact on holiday with her, dont bother, you will just look like you've been stalking his exes fb.

Dont get involved with anymore drama related to this womans fb page and what you have subsequently found out about your ex,

Its honestly not worth anymore drama, hes not going to suddenly change into a different person and not do it again because hes been caught out.

All that will happen is you will get yourself wound up more than you already are .