Relatively newly divorced, been seeing a guy for the last 2 months, Ive been no contact for 7 days now as I suspect he is a huge control freak and my gut is telling me to avoid, however, I’ve been out of the dating game for 15 years so I don’t know whether I’m just being paranoid.
The signs are really subtle (if they exist at all). He keeps me hanging, doesn’t contact me for days on end but always comes back, I know nothing about his life, he is hugely guarded and diverts any questions I ask. He asks me loads of questions, where am I going, who am I seeing, what am I doing. He asked me why I was wearing my hair differently and when I didn’t answer he asked me again. Every contact has to be on his terms. He tells me he’ll call me tomo but he never does, it’s always days later. I suspect he’s either married or just a player so I’m not going to see him again but I’m wondering if just reading too much into things.