Ok so I recently split with my boyfriend of 1& 1/2 years over the fact he was too busy to make me a priority. We got back together two weeks before Christmas and then Christmas Day... he gave me a pair of socks ( the same present as four other of his god children). He said he hadn’t had time to get me anything. It’s sent me into a meltdown. Not because I wanted an expensive present ( a cheap but thoughtful one would have done) but just because he couldn’t be bothered, I’m never going to be a priority for him.