Not too serious but just get fed up when the same old patterns emerge. DH has kept saying that he will wrap the pressies but hasn’t got round to it yet. I haven’t nagged him as we both have loads on. He said about it again tonight then said that it if I’d done some, it would have helped. I haven’t done any because he’d said he would ( he’s much better at it too). I was accused of jumping on what he said ( he often says this & sometimes I do but tonight I don’t believe I did). Anyway, he reckoned he’d already said last year that he didn’t want full responsibility but I don’t remember that. It just became something out of nothing & he ended up doing his usual thing of “ Sorry I mentioned it” which misses the point. It’s hard to explain but somehow I end up feeling in the wrong about something he started! When he went up to bed he said “ I’ve had enough” but he brought up the subject. Now I’m typing it, it comes across as petty. Basically he was probably feeling guilty that he hadn’t wrapped the presents so indirectly pushed that onto me. He’s been pretty stressed & as I said we both have loads on but I get defensive when he’s like he was tonight.