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I'm finally getting there....

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ALittleBitConfused1 · 16/12/2017 09:57

This year has been awful and heart breaking and full of fear.
I left my emotionally and mentally abusive relationship 9 months ago, after he locked me in the house got drunk and assualted me.
The court case is now over, we got a guilty. I also have a restraining order.
I've been in therapy 5 months, this will be ending soon.
I have been told that the responsibility I lost at work this year because I just couldn't cope is being given back to me in the new year.
This weekend I've bought all my favourite food and a bottle of plonk. I've put up my tree this week and I'm spending the weekend in my lovely peaceful, drama and pain free home watching films and pampering myself.
I'm getting used to not feeling the dread when he walks through the door. I'm loving being able to fall asleep knowing he isn't going to wake me up screaming.
I'm now revelling in the I can do whatever I want, this is what healing feels like isn't it?

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Aminuts23 · 16/12/2017 10:24

Yes it is, and it’s a wonderful feeling isn’t it! Have an absolutely lovely and peaceful Christmas and cheers to a much happier and successful 2018 Wine

sexymamma17 · 16/12/2017 10:31

I'm glad your in a much happier place now 🙂
Enjoy your Christmas and have a happy new year!x

ALittleBitConfused1 · 16/12/2017 11:06

It is, thank you ladies and to you and yours too.
Not sure why I posted really, maybe it's because I hoped my story would offer someone else some comfort if they are not there yet.
There has been some such truly horrid days along the way, days where I never thought if get here. Im so proud of what I've achieved. Some would look at my life and say it's boring, my friends are great but weekends like this they want me out, right now I crave and am enjoying every minute of my well earned peace.x

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