That's it. It's over. 14 weeks pregnant ds is 6.

[Thegrassisnevergreener]

Says it all really. Ds is 6. Child from another relationship. I'm 14 weeks pregnant with dp first child and it's over. It's done.
I have my own rented 2 bed house so I am ok for a house I work 2 days a week and a skrimp and save as much as I can to make ends meet dp doesn't live with me otherwise I'd loose all my money benefit wise but he was buying all baby stuff and tonight after we went for a meal (which we spent the whole time arguing) i asked him to take some daft pictures with me to which is started going on about some pictures from an me and a ex which was on my old phone which I haven't even looked at to get rid of and refused to take pictures of us being daft together because he doesnt wanna do what I've done with other people with me (?!?!?!) Anyway I'm sorry I've ranted about shit and non of it is making sense think I need someone to tell. No friends and family as they all hate DP.

Sorry for the rubbish post. You are all queens x

Better to be alone than in a shit relationship op. I wish I had dumped my ex when he was first a twat than struggle on. Please make contact with your family and friends. They will want to support you.

I hope you are ok. You havent had a very good night by the sounds of things. I hope letting off some steam on here can help you.
Why do your family and friends hate your dp?

He failed at that one, you got pregnant by another man he's done the same

What a bellend your best off away from him

Thank you for your replies all.

My friends and fam hate him because he is generally quite opinionated and agressive in his manner if you haven't got to know him very well he comes across quite angry so they all said him or us and like a twat I stuck by him....

Feel very strange tbh like sort of relieved but nervous did ds on my own at 18 from 4 weeks old so absolutely shitting myself at the thought of doing it again

So you argued all through a meal and then wanted to take stupid photos?
You sound immature. Get some contraception and don't be so stupid again.

You can do this on your own and you will be fine.
I am sure if you pick up the phone to your family explaining to them that your relationship is over they will support you.

Hopefully you can see your friends and family had a point considering you asked to take photos and he wouldnt because you did so with your ex. Which in reality a lot of people take photos as couples, so it is really not uncommon!
I bet when you sit back and reflect on your time with him you will see a lot of truth in what your friends and family cut off from.

chiaseeddisapointmentagain yeah we argued throughout the meal which died off towards the end and on way home we apologised seemed ok with each other hence why I didn't want to continue said argument state once we got home and seen as I actually put make up on suggested some daft pictures of us to kind of break the ice I guess and well,because we haven't got many pictures together. That's why.

I actually thought that as I sit here thinking Gerbil17 how much of why family friends don't like him is correct funny thing is hindsight!!

Here's to the next week and sodding Christmas ladies and some gents!

You never know...reconnecting with your family might bring you and your lo and christmas that you will love.

I really hope you pluck up the courage to call them

You’re much better off without him. The fact your friends and family hate him is s huge red flag, I expect they’ll be delighted you’ve go

Scary but I'm going to have too.... many thanks for your support all needed to rant. Thank you

Sorry!

I expect they’ll be delighted you’ve got rid of him!

Have a fab Christmas with your ds, friends and family.