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I've lost the concept if my partner treats me normally

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Somekindoflady · 15/12/2017 21:22

Our son of 2 has mild cerebal palsy. Will walk but going to be a long long journey. My husband has not been to one appt from a year ago, I'm dealing with 5 different hospital departments and have to attend at least every two weeks. Sometimes I have 2 or 3 appts a week. He says he wants to wake up and it all be fixed. He doesn't realise it never will be. He has insinuated im to blame for it. Even though I did nothing in my pregnancy to jeopodise anything. I had multiple miscarriages and wouldn't even take a paracetamol in fear of losing again.
He now has chicken pox which he also won't deal with because our other two kids got pot marks. He says if I let him get pot marks by scratching I am to blame. I've allowed him to scratch his face.
I'm so emotionally drained from coping with the cp by myself I think I've lost sense of wrong and right. Is this normal?

OP posts:
Coyoacan · 16/12/2017 00:07

Start getting your ducks in a row, OP. He sounds like total crap.

It is probably not as financially difficult for you to leave your partner as you are imagining.

I'm glad your son's CP is mild.

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