Hi all.
So I've been with my partner for over 10 years.
We have 2 children.
We've been in a shit situation where our landlord raised the rent so high we couldn't afford it. We were scraping by anyway.
So his parents live in a different county but have offered to let us build a cabin onto their land. We thought this might be a way out of the rent cycle with a future to buying our own land and move the cabin onto it.
So for the past 2 months we've been living in 2 bedrooms in his parents house together with all our boxed up belongings. It's tight!
We've had to move schools and I'm not working but my friends are all an hours drive away now and I'm terribly homesick even though I'm not originally from this country.
Anyway hes been building away while I've made sure to keep things as normal as possible for the children. It's been tough on all of us. As nice as the in laws are for doing this for us I can feel we're kinda out staying our welcome.
The issue however is my partner. He's a freaking control freak and gave out to me for not helping him enough. But most mornings I've to go do stuff as I have to do my washing in town.
I've made more of an effort to help out as I want this done ASAP too.
BUT whatever I do I aparently do wrong. Everything! Even painting! I can't do anything right and he gets nasty and shouts.
The other night he wanted to pay for a present for me through my paypal but it didn't work. Technology. Money was in but it didn't go through.
So he went mental. Saying how I can't do anything and I'm absolutely useless to him other than making fucking coffee!
I was so hurt and told him he's a bully and cried myself to sleep that night.
The next morning he starts shouting g at me again for not trying to pay that first thing as I was busy getting the kids ready.
I told him I don't even want that fucking present so he told me to book a flight home then.
It's not fair. I haven't talked to him since I'm so angry and hurt.
This is my home. Not this county but this country. To just ship me off like that.
I'm furious.
I'm in town doing my washing and crying.
Nobody wants me around I'm aparently doing nothing right. I just wanna go away. Or sometimes I wish he would just go away.
I hate my life right now and don't know what to do. We lice with his parents. I've no job and can't rent cause I won't get benefits here. I don't want to rip the kids away from their home country. And even then I'd live with my mam in a tiny apartment.
Sorry just needed to tell someone.