Husband looking up local (attractive) lady and her husband up on FB

[upsidedown2017]

I've just spotted on his iPad browsing history that my husband has looked up a local man and his attractive wife on Facebook. He doesn't actually use Facebook except to operate his business page so he has only looked at these 2 people and they wouldn't have been suggested as 'people you may know' - he would have actively had to type the names in I think.

What would you do? I'm slightly concerned that the woman is very much his type and he has possibly met her in the course of his work.

Do I ask him about it?

I get the feeling this is just the straw that's broken the camels back? Why do you feel like you've given up on your relationship?

I hope you're okay

Sometimes it will pop up in my mind, but mostly I like to forget the period of our lives because I had an awful pregnancy suffered from Sickness so bad I was in hospital for 4 weeks, we had to move home because he was made redundant.

I have erased that yr from my mind, I think I just excepted it was a crush and he never met her, if he had I would not be with him now!

Christ I'm always snooping on Facebook. I thought everyone did that?

I'm not having an affair I'm just bloody nosey!

You seem to have gone from 0 to 100 based on pretty much fuck all OP.

I get that there may be other issues in your relationship but even so you are coming across as very paranoid and untrusting.

If you saw my Facebook search history you'd have a field day.

Why are you checking his browsing history?

I look up people if they post trolling stuff on politics, just to see what kind of crap they post , particularly rabid Ukippers etc. Im just nosy that way. I noticed my husband had looked up James O Briens wife on FB, dont think hes planning on affairs, he too is nosey clearly!!

There can be so many reasons for this, business, social, plain noseiness etc. men can be just as bad as women on this. They could of course be advertising for a threesome!! but seriously unless yous ee other dodgy behaviour, I would put it down to one of the above.

If I found someone had been checking my browsing history for no apparent reason, I’d bin them off