Hello, I have name changed but am a regular poster. I am really struggling. I broke it off with my bf a few weeks ago as I felt like he was pulling away and I was getting more and more needy and couldn't stop obsessing. But I wish I hadn't and had just given him space but I find that really hard. We used to talk about the future plans and then he stopped and wouldn't commit and i just felt like it was going backwards but all he could see was the stress I was giving him. I think there is something wrong with me because I find it so hard to let go. How on earth can i stop these feelings? I have thought about counselling but I am worried that that could make it worse rather than better.